Once the New Year's afterglow begins to fade, many of us lose inspiration to create or continue positive change in our lives. In fact, Jan 12th was National Quitters Day - the day that most people abandon their resolutions. One of the reasons resolutions don't tend to stick is because they are often drastic/extreme, requiring huge life changes, or they're goals that are too vague, and therefore difficult to work toward. An example: Deciding you're going to work out 7x/week as a resolution is drastic and unsustainable if you were working out 0x/week before, and deciding to "be more active" is too vague...if you wanted to cheat the system, you could stand up from your desk 1 extra time per day, and you'd technically be "more active"!
In order for positive changes to happen and stick, it's often a good idea to start with small habits. Although small habits & changes may initially seem insignificant, any kind of consistent change is better than short-lived big changes or no changes at all. Here are some small habits you can try to incorporate into your life that can have massive payoff!
Saying "I want to drink more water" simply isn't enough if you really want to enact change. A good benchmark for how much water you should drink is calculated like so: divide your weight (lbs) in half, and that's how many ounces you should try to drink each day. For example: a 200-pound man should try to drink 100 oz of water/day. These numbers may seem daunting, but if you commit to steadily drinking water (for me it took buying a huge water bottle with a carrying strap!), you'll begin to notice positive changes. Your skin can clear up, you can feel more energized, you'll even feel less hungry--did you know that oftentimes, your stomach can't distinguish hunger from thirst? Next time you feel the munchies, drink a glass of water.
I'm not saying you have to get up at the crack of dawn and climb to the top of a mountain to "experience nature"--I'm just saying that meditation as a practice is really beneficial to your life. If you're like me, and you're bad at emptying your mind, try guided meditations. I use an app called "Calm" every night, and I use guided meditations/sleep stories to help my mind shut off and get ready for rest. It's become a routine of mine, and I've noticed a massive positive change in my sleep quality and how fast I can fall asleep. Try incorporating meditation into your morning or night routines--the results could surprise you.
This doesn't mean you need to blow money on tons of expensive treatments or pampering sessions (although you're welcome to do so!). It's simply important to dedicate time each day to caring for one's self. In my own life, I practice self care by treating myself to face masks, and by dedicating time every evening to being alone. This allows me time to recharge (I'm an introvert so solitude is a must), and to spend quality time with my pet cat Rosie (the ultimate therapy!). Try carving out just 10 minutes a day for yourself, whether it's to paint your nails, do some feel-good stretches, etc--giving yourself time to be "selfish" is imperative! The better you take care of yourself, the better your perform in other aspects of life: work, relationships, finances, and more.
I hope this little list inspires some of you to make small adjustments to your routines! It can have a profound impact.
Sitting in my swivel chair as I write this, I find my gaze drawn out the nearby window to take in the bright sun, blue sky, and green trees swaying in the breeze. The view offers welcome relief from the sterile white walls and abrasive fluorescent light of the office. It is also a bittersweet reminder of being confined indoors to attend to my professional tasks. I lament that I cannot able step out into the scene just beyond my window sill. At least today I have the opportunity go there in my mind and reflect on what I love most about these Summer months.
Longer Days & Warmer Weather
Here in New England, it is oft bemoaned that during the winter we ‘go to work in the dark and drive home in the dark’. The short cold days means that daytime almost feels squandered by being stuck inside. When Summer comes around, there is sweet reprieve from the workday grind with the knowledge that there will still be a few hours of daylight after it is time to clock out. On most days, when you step outside you are welcomed by the warm embrace of Summer air and birds chirping. Those of us privileged to experience the four seasons know that this is much different from heading outside in the winter- which typically means ducking down and shuffling through the snow to reach your car as quickly as possible before risking certain death from exposure! The bright sunshine and warm air beckons us to feel more open and relaxed. We are encouraged to feel less guarded and free as we are embraced by the nurturing rays of the sun.
Nature is Alive and In Bloom
This sense of invigoration by the warmer months appears to extend throughout nature. The trees are full and green, catching the wind and sunshine, and provide us with fresh air. The birds are chirping and chasing each other. The local ponds become a hub of activity as fish, fowl, and frogs lark about the shores. Wild flowers and manicured gardens adorn the landscape with vibrant hues like confetti at a birthday. Summer makes it feel like there is a party outside!
Being More Social
People seem to become more social when the weather gets nice. There’s the chance to come together in open spaces and warm air and sunshine. We feel less guarded, as we don’t need to actually physically guard ourselves from the elements. There’s something to the idea of “summer love”. We feel freer and more open with ourselves and others when the weather is nice, and the sun is bright!
Everything I have described so far supports the fact that it is great to get outdoors! The benefits of being outside is something innate that really doesn’t require description. I think we all sort of intuitively know that it is good for us to get out of the house. It makes sense. Outdoors is where 99% of our evolution has occurred. This whole spending much of our time indoors thing is a pretty new phenomenon. Humans evolved conjointly with our natural settings. This natural relationship and its benefits have become the subject of a vast breadth of contemporary research. That inquiry has shown numerous health benefits to being outdoors and in nature. Here’s a non-inclusive list of the benefits of the outdoors:
For years, Japanese culture has practiced something called “nature bathing”. This means to go to a natural setting and taking in the environment- which has a cleansing effect on our bodies and minds. Research into the practice has only validated the correlation between nature and well-being. My favorite part of Summer is that it lends us the access to getting outside and being more well.
Let me take this opportunity to remind you that when venturing off to find a healthier you, bring along your Mouth Watchers travel brush!